Navigating Burnout: 12 Essential Insights from a Coach's Journey
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I experienced burnout several years ago following my father's passing. Despite having made considerable improvements to my health, I reverted to my old habit of constant busyness. I was unprepared for the depth of my grief, even though I knew better.
If we are truthful, there are countless distractions we can turn to in order to avoid confronting our feelings—be it through food, alcohol, binge-watching shows, or immersing ourselves in work.
Workaholism was my downfall.
I became consumed by my job, often toiling until the early hours. I neglected self-care, exercised sporadically, and frequently skipped meals. I pushed myself to the limit for a few years until my body finally gave out, leading to a health collapse that kept me nearly bed-ridden for over a year.
It required numerous doctors and years of steadfast effort to rebuild my health. This was an experience I wouldn’t wish on anyone.
Reflecting on that disastrous time in my life, I realized that preventing burnout is significantly easier than recovering from it.
Chronic stress can trigger a chain reaction in our lives—a buildup of minor issues that can escalate into major problems if not addressed. My health crisis compelled me to slow down and reassess my priorities.
I learned that life is both precious and fleeting, and if we aren’t vigilant, it can slip away in an instant.
Whether you are already facing burnout or sense it approaching, I hope the lessons I gained from my recovery can serve as a useful guide for you.
When we function at our best, we can lead lives filled with purpose, joy, and impact.
12 Insights to Flourish and Prevent Burnout
1. You can't do it all and thrive.
Finding equilibrium is crucial to stave off burnout. The imbalance in my life escalated stress and ultimately culminated in my health breakdown. Ensure your daily routines include enjoyable activities, no matter how trivial.
I am often astonished when I ask clients what recharges them, and they reply with silence. Is it time spent in nature? A hobby? Or perhaps something that inspires you?
Children can easily articulate their favorite activities, yet as adults, we often lose track of our own joys. The trick is to identify these moments and integrate them into your schedule.
2. Keep a "To-Don't" list.
What we decline is just as significant as what we accept. Just because something is beneficial does not mean it has to be part of your current agenda. Evaluate your obligations and create a "to-don't" list.
Taking on too much at once invites burnout. Are there responsibilities you can delegate or postpone?
3. Release the grip of perfectionism.
A major source of work-related stress often stems from our self-imposed demand for near-perfection. Instead, aim for progress without fixating on perfection. Give yourself grace—everyone is a work in progress.
Do not allow the fear of failure to immobilize you; view it instead as valuable feedback. Shifting your perspective can reveal much about yourself.
4. Perspective is crucial.
In our pursuit of goals, we can become so singularly focused that we overlook the broader journey and our personal growth.
Learn to appreciate the process. Life is a marathon, not a sprint. Celebrate daily achievements and reflect on the lessons learned from challenges. Failing to recognize our progress can lead to feelings of futility and burnout.
5. Embrace the power of pausing.
Sometimes, making progress involves taking a step back.
Rest is the antidote to burnout and essential for maintaining balance. For high achievers, the concept of stillness may seem counterproductive, yet it’s vital for enhancing productivity, overall happiness, and health.
Schedule time for breaks, stretching, fresh air, and connection. If this feels daunting, incorporate them where possible—take meetings outdoors or walk during calls. Leaders who prioritize health foster a positive impact on their teams.
“Making time for the things that bring us joy gives us more resilience against stress and fatigue and an improved psychological outlook.”
—Dr. Mark Hyman
6. Multitasking is a fallacy.
Attempting to juggle multiple tasks can heighten mental stress, even if you consider yourself adept at multitasking. Regularly switching between tasks can lead to exhaustion and burnout.
To maintain focus, set a timer for 20 minutes and devote your attention to a single task, or activate "do not disturb" mode on your devices.
7. Concentrate on what you can control.
In our hyper-connected world, stressors abound.
While we cannot eliminate stressors, we can alter our reactions to them. Remember that our focus amplifies what we experience in life.
Research indicates that it’s not the stressors themselves that jeopardize our health but our perception of them. Focus on controllable aspects and break tasks into manageable portions. Mindfulness meditation can help train your brain to pause before reacting.
8. Establish healthy work boundaries.
Creating clear boundaries between work and personal life is essential, especially with many working from home. Just because messages come through at all hours doesn’t mean you must respond immediately. Set specific times for replies.
When work is done, shift your focus to the present. This also extends to news consumption and social media. Limit your exposure to avoid negative impacts on your mental health.
9. Develop a robust morning routine.
We've all experienced frantic mornings that set the tone for a chaotic day.
By being deliberate with your mornings, you can foster a sense of calm, balance, and readiness to tackle the day ahead.
10. Prioritize movement and sleep.
I cannot stress enough the significance of both movement and sleep for optimal well-being.
There’s a reason sleep is a hot topic among top athletes and CEOs. To enhance mental clarity and productivity, prioritize quality sleep.
The National Sleep Foundation recommends 7 to 9 hours of quality sleep for adults. Pay attention to how you feel in the morning to determine your ideal amount.
Sleep and activity are interconnected, so don’t overlook movement throughout the day. Even simple actions like walking can help regulate your nervous system during stressful moments.
11. Fuel your body wisely.
To feel your best and stave off burnout, maintaining a well-balanced diet is essential.
Just as you wouldn’t fuel a high-performance car with low octane, your body also requires quality nutrition. Many of my clients skip meals due to busyness, but this can lead to decreased productivity and unhealthy cravings.
Meal prepping can be an effective strategy for managing a busy schedule, or consider meal delivery services a few times a week. A nutritious lunch can significantly enhance your daily well-being.
12. Cultivate gratitude.
Practicing gratitude can enhance our resilience to stress by reshaping our brain's pathways.
The brain is capable of neuroplasticity, adapting and forming new connections. By focusing on gratitude, we can amplify positivity in our lives and manage stress more effectively. Consider jotting down three things you’re grateful for each day or reflecting on them before sleep.
“Counting your blessings now actually makes it easier to recognize them later because your mind will get better and better at the process of building a positive and grateful mindset.”
—Dr. Caroline Leaf
Conclusion
Although burnout may feel inevitable in our busy lives, it is indeed preventable with proactive steps toward maintaining balance. Finding what works for you is essential.
The journey to gaining perspective and balance can be ongoing, but by concentrating on what truly matters—our health, passions, relationships, and ourselves—we can create a life resilient to chronic stress and burnout.
Take care. ?
Warm regards, April
I would love to hear your insights or any strategies that have helped you achieve balance. Feel free to share below! ?
April Likins is a board-certified health coach trained at Duke and the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, deeply committed to helping others lead healthier, happier lives. She writes about stress management, balance, sleep improvement, and finding joy in the journey.
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