Breaking the Norm: Why Rule Breakers Matter for Society
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Chapter 1: The Importance of Rule Breakers
Rule breakers, whether outspoken or subtle, challenge outdated and questionable societal norms that many of us often accept without question. Their presence is essential; without them, we might grow complacent and accept the intolerable. Anarchists, in particular, play a crucial role in paving new paths.
My first indirect experience with a rule breaker was through a vibrant character named Stella. She had fiery red hair reminiscent of Boy George, who was also viewed as a nonconformist. Stella wore her hair down, with braids framing her heavily made-up face, her pale complexion contrasting sharply with the white walls of our classroom. I was captivated by her long, blood-red nails, which resembled claws—how did she manage to write with them?
Though I never met her personally, my friend Josey did. Josey aspired to be an anarchist, dressing in a rebellious manner and adopting a defiant attitude, but she didn’t engage in the same daring actions as Stella, who actively protested against hunting.
Stella was known for rising early to join her anti-hunting friends, waiting for horse riders in their colorful attire, accompanied by hounds, to appear. She would blow a horn to mislead the hounds and riders, causing them to stray from their intended path. At least, that’s what Josey recounted.
As a quiet and contemplative soon-to-be vegetarian, the stories of Stella encouraged me to reconsider my dietary choices. I pondered whether I wanted to continue eating my furry friends simply because it was tradition or if I wanted to follow my heart, much like Stella did by choosing vegetarianism.
Some rebels challenge the status quo almost unintentionally. They are the ones who, by simply being themselves, create new boundaries while dismantling old ones. Anyone who is the first to try something different is, in a sense, a rule breaker.
To even contemplate stepping outside societal norms, one must think creatively and listen to their intuition, channeling their dissatisfaction into meaningful change. However, such actions are often met with resistance.
From historical figures like Jesus to modern icons like Vivienne Westwood, those who have dared to express unconventional ideas and opinions have undeniably enriched our world. While not everyone may appreciate Westwood’s designs, one cannot deny her influence on the fashion industry, reminding us that societal norms—be it in fashion or politics—are not immutable unless we allow them to be.
Sometimes, rule breakers rebel due to frustration with societal behavior, seeking personal satisfaction in their dissent. Michelangelo is a prime example. His renowned frescoes in the Sistine Chapel might appear innocent at first glance, but a closer examination reveals a subtle act of rebellion. Above the east entrance, a cherub reading over Zechariah's shoulder makes a hand gesture known as “the Fig,” a sign of disdain toward the church.
It’s important to distinguish between respected rule breakers and those who create chaos for chaos's sake. While some anarchists have legitimate grievances, their actions can sometimes backfire. For instance, recent protests against the cost of living involved vandalizing Van Gogh’s sunflower painting. Although no lasting damage was done, pouring soup over such a masterpiece did little to alleviate poverty and left many questioning the effectiveness of their methods. I sympathized with their cause but recognized that their approach was misguided. To foster support, one must rebel in ways that do not alienate potential allies.
According to Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project, effective rebels typically embody four key traits:
- Strategy of Identity: Being authentic.
- Strategy of Clarity: Clearly defining their values and actions.
- Strategy of Convenience: Acting spontaneously when needed.
- Strategy of Other People: Distinguishing themselves through their actions.
Rubin's insights on rebellion highlight the necessity of aligning one’s actions with their values. Ambiguity can breed misunderstanding, turning potential allies into adversaries.
To be a genuine rule breaker, one must have a valid reason for their actions. While some may resist your message, a clear and rational justification can resonate with those who share similar sentiments. The world needs individuals like Westwood, Stella, and Michelangelo to prevent us from stagnating in unhelpful patterns.
Despite recognizing the value of rebellion, I don't consider myself a rebel. However, I do strive to challenge injustices when I encounter them. I admire those who possess the courage—whether wise or foolish—to stand apart from the crowd, even when they stumble in their efforts.
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The first video titled "What to Do with Classroom Rule Breakers?" delves into strategies for managing disruptive behavior in educational settings and emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying reasons for such actions.
The second video, "Rule Breakers, Breaking Rules! How the rules we are taught can sabotage our test performance," explores how societal expectations can hinder individual performance and encourages viewers to rethink conventional approaches to education and assessment.