Unlocking Success: Why Simple Advice Often Gets Overlooked
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Chapter 1: The Myth of Overly Simple Advice
When we hear advice that appears too straightforward, we often doubt its authenticity. Many creators on platforms like Medium can come across as misleading, prompting thoughts such as, "They aren't telling the whole truth" or "They're trying to keep their secrets hidden." However, the reality is that success doesn't have to be complicated.
The steps to achieving your goals are generally uncomplicated. The true challenge lies in the execution. For example, if you sit down with a skilled artist and ask for a painting demonstration, the steps might seem effortless. A flick of the wrist here, a swirl there, and suddenly, a stunning unicorn is created. Yet, when you attempt the same, your effort might resemble a clumsy centaur.
Does this mean the artist was dishonest in sharing their process? Absolutely not. The simplicity of the steps is clear, but the skill required to execute them effectively is what sets them apart.
In the past, information was often closely guarded, but over time, people recognized that sharing knowledge doesn’t guarantee action. Even when provided with clear, easy-to-follow instructions, many still fail to take initiative. As the Nigerian proverb states, "if e easy, do am."
No one is deceiving you; the steps truly are that simple. Brian Tracy, a well-known motivational speaker, once said, "Success leaves tracks." While it can be tempting to forge your own path, often the most direct route to your goals is right in front of you—just waiting for you to follow it.
If you remain skeptical of straightforward advice, you risk stagnation. Pessimists often seek to validate their doubts, resulting in weak commitment and lackluster execution. I challenge that mindset—embrace a growth-oriented perspective. Learn, believe, and act on the guidance provided.
Here are five insightful articles that I have found immensely valuable this week:
Eve Arnold’s Guide for New Creators
A seasoned Medium creator, Eve Arnold, offers a comprehensive list for those just starting their part-time creative journey. This list is filled with gems that inspired me greatly.
Every Single Bit of Useful Advice I Can Think of After 3 Years of Creating Part-Time
Use these insights to kickstart your part-time venture today.
Ayodeji Awosika's Advice for Aspiring Writers
In a thought-provoking piece, Ayodeji challenges new Medium writers on how to improve their craft. His dedication to writing, even before the Medium Partnership Program, highlights the importance of commitment.
20 Hard-Hitting Writing Tips to Sharpen Your Skills Fast
How to Not Suck at Writing Episode #18
Amos Tanel on Building Connections
I appreciate the sense of community on Medium. Amos Tanel’s article on enhancing social interactions provided practical tips that I intend to apply in future engagements.
How to Get People to Like You In Under 3 Minutes
Insights based on extensive personal experiences and interactions.
Divad Sanders on Getting Affirmative Responses
The three-letter word we all love to hear—"Yes." Divad provides strategies to increase the likelihood of receiving positive replies to your requests. One critical tip was to clearly outline what benefits both parties.
Here’s How to Get A Resounding “Yes!” Instead of a Flaccid “Sure”
Remember: Make it mutually beneficial.
Tim Denning’s Email List Building Tips
I saved Tim Denning’s article on growing an email list to revisit this weekend. While I have the foundational elements, there's still much to optimize.
The Exact System I Used to Build My Email List to 140,000 Subscribers
Insights from a TikToker who learned valuable lessons about email lists the hard way.
Open your eyes, ears, and mind to the wealth of free advice around you. Yes, the steps are indeed simple, and the guidance is genuinely valuable.
Chapter 2: Embracing the Journey
The video, titled "Helping Athletes Overcome Self-Doubt: Mental Coaching Tip," provides valuable insights on overcoming self-doubt and is a must-watch for anyone seeking to bolster their confidence and execution in any field.
About Joy Ekere: Sometimes the words flow effortlessly, and other times, I just jot down the thoughts that come to me. I cherish those moments of inspiration, which led to this piece.